The beginning of a married life is magical with many hopes and wishes.

But as the time passes by, often couples feel the pressure of making compromises for each other.

You are perceived as being a challenge to get your time and attention, thus, making you more desirable.

Putting down your ex or rehashing old hurts will only keep you in a negative and depressed state if mind. A leader, however, creates value because he/she has a full life, his time is scarce.

Every divorce will affect the kids involved — and many times the initial reaction is one of shock, sadness, frustration, anger, or worry.

Still, while it's up to parents to use their best judgment about when to start dating again, there are some rules all divorcés should follow when it comes to revving up the romance again.

It bolstered my confidence for dating.” Claudia Barnett needed some alone time to heal before seeking a new relationship.

“Your marriage has died; you need to grieve that loss,” Barnett says.

For some people, that happens before they move out.

Others are still emotionally married after the divorce is final.” Dena Roché started dating while waiting for her divorce papers to come through.